Tom and Bill’s new book Grit and Grace: Black Fathers Tell Their Stories, has been published. This collection of 23 interviews with dads reveals the engaging, challenging, and rewarding task of being a parent.

The book is based on Tom and Bill’s deep concern over race relations in the US, the perception of black fathers as bad parents, and the challenges faced by many black youth. Tom and Bill launched the project to discuss the issues and identify dads who are doing it right, despite the difficulties they have faced in their own lives.

Meanwhile, Tom and Bill’s book of columns, Dads2Dads: Tools For Raising Teenagers, is a helpful, entertaining guide to parenting. Both make thoughtful gifts!

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